Mediation

Mediation is an alternative way of resolving disputes. A mediator acts as a facilitator and will see both of you together to help you to come to a firm and final agreement where there is conflict. Through mediation we help couples find creative solutions and outcomes to relationship breakdown and communication difficulties.

We are highly skilled and trained mediators to help you through the emotional rollercoaster experienced on relationship breakdown and guide you towards the outcomes you want. You are in control and we manage your conflict and support both of you through the whole process.

We don’t take sides, or make judgements. We remain impartial, respectful and understanding of a process which can be emotionally painful and difficult.

How do I know if it is right for me?

Mediation is for anyone who is committed to finding a resolution of disputes through talking and finding a way forward. Mediation is for anyone who can allow the mediator to facilitate and support you though the process. Both of you need to have this commitment.

Only the mediation sessions are charged. They are charged on a session basis and these charges are agreed at the intake session. There will be a small nominal charge for the intake session, although this is refundable if mediation is taken up. Please telephone us for more details of the charges made and what the overall cost may be.

What kind of problems do Mediators normally deal with?

Common disputes dealt with in family mediation are:

  • Divorce
  • Financial settlements
  • Co-parenting children
  • Separating unmarried couples
  • Communication between parents

These are the most common areas, but we deal with any form of family conflict.

What is your training?

We are Resolution trained solicitor mediators. We also work as family solicitors and so can give you legal information throughout the process where necessary. We cannot give you advice as this may prevent us from acting on an impartial basis. Please check the Resolution web site (www.resolution.org.uk) for more information about our regulators. We are members of Resolution and subscribe to their code of conduct.

What kind of agreement will I end up with? Is it enforceable?

We will draw up an agreement for you. This is set out in a very particular format and is very detailed. You will need to see a solicitor to draw up legally enforceable documents for you to send to court if that is what you require. However, your solicitor will need to do very little. We are unable to draw up the legal documentation as this affects our impartial role. At any time through the mediation process you can take legal advice from a solicitor and combine this with the mediation sessions if you wish.

What do I do next?

If you would like to explore the possibility of using mediation to resolve difficulties following relationship or communication break-down with your partner please call on 01494 776696.